And in the fine pilgrim tradition,
my ancestors (grandparents) came over here to the New World, America, and
they celebrated and gave thanks for their new fortune, freedom and prosperiety.
However, they were very reluctant to give up the traditions of their
own, that is why they still serve manicotti, lasagna or stuffed shells prior
to the turkey. If you are ever invited to a real Italian Thanksgiving
Dinner, do not eat beforehand, and bring your appetite, and plan on staying
for a while or even sleeping over. You see, they start off with the
antipasto: salami, pepperoni, tomatoes, olives, anchovies, sweet roasted
peppers, assorted cheeses like mozzarella, provolone, and even the American
cheddar, etc. Then comes the salad, next the pasta, and of course nexts
comes the turkey, complete with stuffing, yams, mashed potatoes, gravy and
anything else you might expect. Afterward, you of course have the fine
Italian pastries, and that is always the hightlight, the conversation then
consists of where you got them, how long you waited on line, and who has
the best. This final course includes black coffee done in the double
boiler, better known as demitasse or espresso, with the usual cordials, amaretto,
sambuca and/or anisette. Homemade or jug wine is served throughout
the meal, so in conjunction with the turkey, it would then be time to go
into the den or living room to watch the game and doze off, only to wake
to the leftovers, turkey sandwiches, leftover antipasto, pastry,
etc.
So Thanksgiving at my aunt's house (after
my grandparents in Newark were gone, that was family headquarters), went
a little something like this:
Antipasta Freddi (Cold Appetizers)
Assorted Italian Cheeses
Assorted Olives
Assorted Sliced Vegetables
Shrimp Cocktail
Seafood Cocktail Salad
Antipasta Caldi (Hot Appetizers)
Stuffed Artichokes
Stuffed Mushrooms
Stuffed Peppers
Primi Piatti (First Course)
Manicotti or Stuffed Shells or Baked Ziti or Lasagna, maybe
even Ravioli
Always served with Meatballs, Sausage, Braciole
Secondi Piatti (Second or Main Course)
Turkey, stuffing, gravy, cranberry sauce, yams, potatoes, Italian
string beans
Dolce (Desserts)
Pastries from Calandra's, or Ferrara's, or whoever
else arguabley "has the best"
Roasted Nuts, chestnuts, and homemade like pumpkin or apple pie
(or both), homemade Italian cookies
Beverages & Drinks
Brookdale Soda: Any variety, I am not even sure if they still
make this anymore, as it was a regional soda that came in such favorites
as black cherry, grape and orange. And of course, for the "adults"
lemon lime, ginger ale and club soda for "highballs" or cocktails as we call
them today. These bottles had a deposit, and you had to pry off the
top cap, reseal with plastic tabs or corks to keep from going flat, they
were delivered weekly like the milk in those days.
Rose and/or Red Wine by the Jug (I never recall seeing white
wine, though I am sure the had it on hand), nothing fancy, whatever was cheapest,
the wine would never take presidence over the food for any reason! Of
course, there was also a small amount of homemade wine on hand.
Dessert Drinks: Demi Tasse (or espresso) and American Coffee
Italian Cordials & Liquers: Sambuca, Anisette, Blackberry Brandy,
Amaretto, Fangelico